10 STDs All Men Should Know About


STDs or Sexually Transmitted Diseases are infections transmitted through sexual contact. They may be transmitted through any kind of sexual activity.

There are misconceptions galore about STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases). While many dismiss the possibility of ever contracting one since they don’t have multiple partners, there are several who are quick to assume that they don’t have one, since there are no debilitating, life-threatening effects. However, whether the signs and symptoms are obvious to you or not, you definitely need to know when to check for one—so that you’re not putting either your partner or yourself at risk. Here are 10 STDs that all men should know about:

1) Chlamydia

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Chlamydia is a bacterial STD that is transmitted when one has (oral, vaginal or anal) sex with a person who has Chlamydia. One of the most common sexually transmitted diseases in the world, this infection often doesn’t even manifest symptoms in many people, while in some others, it may take several weeks to show. Some of the common symptoms that men affected with Chlamydia show are: pain when urinating, penile discharge and swollen testicles. The reason this is a persistent problem is that, even though symptoms disappear, the infection still remains—putting both partners at risk. Therefore, the infection needs to be treated at the earliest.

2) Gonorrhoea

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Gonorrhoea is a bacterial infection that can affect the anus, throat or urethra. It is transmitted through anal, oral and/or vaginal sex with an infected person. While most men with the disease don’t display any symptoms at all, some do, which include: pain when urinating, a green/white/yellow discharge from the penis and swollen testicles. Treatment often given for gonorrhoea is also curative for Chlamydia, as both these disease usually occur together.

3) Trichomoniasis

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Many men and women infected with this don’t even display symptoms and as with Chlamydia and Gonorrhoea, may not even know that they are infected. In case it does not manifest itself in symptoms, it typically causes urethritis—itching or burning, and discharge from the urethra.

4) HIV

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The Human Immunodeficiency Virus is perhaps the most feared STD in the world, and justifiably so. While sexual contact is one of the prime factors (as in all other STDs), HIV, however, can also be transmitted through sharing of needles, or from an infected pregnant woman to her baby. The virus ultimately causes dysfunction of the entire body’s immune system at a later point in time. The time taken to go from infection to immune dysfunction is usually about 10 years. Sans any specific symptoms, HIV can manifest itself in the infected person through fever or flu-like illness which surface 2 to 4 weeks after contracting the virus. Today, numerous medications are available to help people manage the infection and stall or delay the illness.

5) Herpes

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The Herpes Simplex Viruses (HSVs) cause painful, blistering sores on exposed parts of the body and are transmitted through any kind of sexual contact. Like in other STDs, it is possible for people with herpes to not display any symptoms. In men, the sores can be found on the penis, buttocks, scrotum, anus, inside the urethra or on the skin of the thighs. The sores of Oral herpes  occur on lips or around the mouth, and can be spread through kissing. HSV infections are not curable and persist for life; outbreaks can be soothed to an extent by antiviral medication.

6) Genital Warts

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Human Papillomavirus infection (HPV) is a common STD. While some HPVs cause genital warts, however, certain HPVs cause common warts that are not STDs at all. It is believed that over 75 % of sexually active people have been affected with genital warts. Symptoms, if they do occur, include lesions—which appear as soft, flesh bumps on the surface on the anus or penis. While vaccines and treatment to remove warts are available, the body is usually known to cure itself of the HPV infection.

7) Hepatitis B

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Caused by the Hepatitis B virus (HBV), Hepatitis B is particularly dangerous, because unlike the other STDs which cause certain common symptoms around the genital area, this STD can cause inflammation of the liver. One can contract HBV by coming in contact with the blood or bodily fluids of a person who has the infection. Common symptoms include: loss of appetite, low-grade fever, nausea and vomiting, muscle and joint aches, and jaundice (yellow hue to the skin and dark-coloured urine).

8) Syphilis

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Syphilis is a bacterial STD that can be transmitted through anal, oral or vaginal sex. Syphilis may set in through four stages: if the first is untreated, secondary syphilis can develop causing the infection to spread to other organs. After this stage, some people may develop a latent infection for years—finally resulting in tertiary syphilis (which can cause brain infection, loss of sight and deafness). Fortunately, syphilis is curable with proper antibiotics.

Ultimately, when you’re slipping into the sheets for a night of frenetic sexual activity, STDs are the last thing you want to think about. Make sure with this list that you don’t have to!

Please note it is important for anyone who is sexually active to go for STD tests every six months, especially if you have miltiple partners, or have had sex without protection.

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5 Signs You are a Sex Addict


In today’s hyper-active social setup sex addiction has become a prevailing malady.

The major problem with this condition is that not many people see this as a problem in the first place. While most people are oblivious to what sex addiction is, those that do acknowledge it have sought help for it.

While a healthy sex life is good for the body, excessive indulgence in the act or obsessing about it can have a negative impact on your personal life. To define what sex addiction is, in simple words: it is the presence of a strong urge to have sex as often as you can or get sexual gratification via pornography, masturbation, flirting or in severe cases even voyeurism. This urge manifests through certain behaviour that makes a person a sex addict. So in case you were wondering if you might be part of the gang, read on to see if the signs are visible in your life.

Are you always thinking about it?

Between the two sexes, it is said that men think about sex more than women. But how often is too much? There is no definitive guideline for this but if you have sex on mind when you should be focusing on other things like work or when you are spending time with family or friends then this might be the first indicator of sex addiction.

Constantly seeking sexual material

Sex has a strong representation across various media. Whether its newspapers, websites, magazines, music, movies and television. Sex addicts usually seek out sexual content wherever they can. For instance, they might pick up a woman’s magazine only to read through articles on sex, or find they are more excited when intimate or sexually explicit scenes appear in movies or music videos. If you can sit through a love making scene without getting aroused or you don’t find the need to seek out material that is sexual in nature then you are doing fine.

Not following the sexual code of conduct

Sex addicts are often prone to cheating out of sheer compulsion. This is planned, proactive and the person indulging in this has very little regard for the consequences. They are ready to risk their personal relationships just to satisfy that urge. Celebrities like Tiger Woods and David Duchovny have wrecked their marriages because of the constant cheating and affairs. You can have a strong sex drive but if it is making you seek out multiple partners then you are seriously risking losing a wife or a girlfriend, not to mention a lot of emotional trauma that is to follow.

Regular sex is just not good enough

Nowadays you find the usual routine of love making very boring. There is a need to experiment, try new things and look for new stimuli. A lot of couples do indulge in stuff like this to spice up their sex lives but if this need is compulsive and causing you to do outrageous things, then these are symptoms of sex addiction. For instance, role playing might be a good idea but if you are thinking of swinging then there is a problem.

Addiction to porn

If you have a large stash of pornography that you turn to very often for relief or just pure indulgence then this is a sure sign of addiction. Yes porn was cool when you were a teenager but if you have past your teens and are still downloading the latest movies and clips, you need help.

The good news is that sexual addiction can be cured. With therapy and the support of your loved ones you can overcome it and lead a normal life. If you find that help is required, get it fast, before it’s too late.

12 Erogenous Zones In A Woman’s Body You Should Pay More Attention To


Explore the endless possibilities of sexual pleasures as we tell you all you need to know about the most erogenous zones in a woman’s body. This is bound to make things exciting between the sheets.

1. Scalp

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Scalp is a great erogenous zone to hit it off with your girl. Running your fingers through her hair with accidental tugs will prepare her for the wild love making to follow.

2. Ears

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Women love it when you play with their ears. Sucking on them and even blowing gently into them will arouse her to a whole new level.

3. Lips

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Give her a passionate kiss that she’ll never forget and it will lead to the best sex you’ve ever had.

4. Neck

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Moving down gently, breath heavily on the nape of her neck, lick it a little and nibble on it and she won’t be able to resist getting into bed with you.

5. Inner thighs

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A slight rub followed by stroking and licking the inner thighs can make her go wild with pleasure. Don’t bite though, the area is too sensitive and rough stimulation might bruise her.

6. Breasts

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This one’s obvious, isn’t it? Fondle with them gently, massage, suck on them and watch her give in to her sexual desires. If she’s properly aroused, she won’t even mind you going a little rough on her breasts.

7. Behind The Knees

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This area is highly sensitive to touch, so you can get her in the mood by even some casual touching.

8. Butt

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Women love when their partners play with their buttocks during foreplay. It makes things exciting even for the man. And if she’s in the mood, she might even allow you to fulfil your wildest fantasies by spanking her!

9. Waist

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A slight tickle, a gentle, almost accidental graze of the hand and some finger play on her stomach can make her squirm with pleasure. Its proximity to the other obvious sweet spots on her body makes the area even more sensitive to touch.

10. Feet

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Pay special attnetion to feet. Massage them, suck on her toes gently and you’d be sure to send some shivers of sexual desires up her body.

11. Perenium

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Perenium is the little sensitive region between the vulva and the anus and it is one of the most sensitive areas in a woman’s body. Play with it right and you could even make her orgasm by stimulation alone!

12. Clitoris

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Using your fingers, tongue, both at the same time or penis – there’s so much you can do to a woman’s clitoris, if you were to try out a different thing every time you will never run out of techniques of arousing her to new heights of sexual pleasure.

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10 Reasons Why Being A Pornstar Is Not As Easy As It Looks


What could be a better job than to have sex with all the women you want to? Doesn’t being a pornstar look like such a cool profession? What if we tell you its not even half as much fun as it looks to you? Here’s why.

1. A man needs to be aroused to get an erection, and the porn film set is just not the place for anybody to get aroused in. Quite ironically, the hardest thing about being a male pornstar is getting hard. The shoot goes on for hours at a stretch and it is humanly impossible to have an erection for that long. Porn stars often have to switch to taking Viagra, Levitra or Cialis. And sometimes, when none of it works, they are needed to inject Trimix onto their penis. Yes, you heard that right – taking injections on their penis.

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2. What you see in porn might be extremely hot but what goes on while filming it is anything but sexy. There are certain shots to be taken that may not look as appealing to the audiences if shot from ordinary angles. So, the man is made to thrust into the woman at odd angles like nobody ever would, just for that one perfect shot.

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3. Talking of discomfort, sometimes, the sex can get inhumanly rough because the script demands it , bordering on to being painful. It hurts female pornstars while shooting those scenes where they show their silicon implanted, unrealistically big breasts bouncing. It is extremely painful for the guy to be jerked off so hard and fast for such a long period of time but you gotta keep going till the camera is rolling. No sympathies.

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4. The intercourse scenes are shot for hours, and then reshot from different angles. Do you know what that means? Sore penises and bruised vaginas by the end of every shoot – which is every day.

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5. Blowjobs are anything but fun. Imagine a woman going down on your member and staying there for so long, more vigorously every minute as the director commands, you start to feel her molars on your penis. Sounds painful? You bet it is.

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6. You may love watching doggystyle porn but the woman in it goes through hell while filming it. Parts that are not supposed to be thrusted into are continuously pounded and then the whole sequence is shot again from different angles till the director likes the shot.

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7. BDSM is totally different (read difficult) ball game. Everything is exaggerated to appeal to the audience and let’s just say it is extremely painful.

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8. Being a pornstar, you’re prone to so many STDs, you have get yourself checked every now and then. Skip one and you might end up with AIDS.

Reasons Why Being A Pornstar Is Not As Easy As It Looks

9. The most common reason of depression amongst pornstars is their personal relationships. They are judged critically for their choice of career and nobody wants to date them.

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10. Let’s face it – pornstars are judged everywhere they go. Given the short shelf life of a pornstar, a lot of them decide to move on to other careers later in life. But guess what, this world is a very unaccepting place. Nobody even wants to give pornstars a regular job. How pathetic is that!

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33 Facts About Sex You Never Knew


Sex is the most natural thing in the world and yet the least talked about. Initiating a change in our approach towards seeing sex as a taboo, here are 33 things about sex you never knew!

1. Ejaculated sperm survives only for a few hours outside the body but once it enters a woman’s vagina and makes its way up to her cervical mucus, it can live for upto 3-5 days.

2. An average healthy man can ejaculate enough sperm in two weeks to impregnate every woman in the world.

3. Sex increases your immunity to pain. Orgasms trigger hormones that help you increase your pain threshold.

4. Ever wonder why it is difficult to urinate immediately after having sex? That’s because when you orgasm, an anti-diuretic hormone is released in your body.

5. Peeing after having sex prevents you from catching urinary tract infections.

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6. Even though it is a very tiny percentage, some women can orgasm just through stimulation of breasts and nipples. No, nipplegasms aren’t a myth!

7. A woman’s breasts can swell up to 25 % when she is turned on.

8. Sex is one of the best stress busters. It lowers your blood pressure and calms you down. Now that’s another reason to have sex!

9. Using lube makes orgasming easier.

10. Post workout is a great time to have sex. Working out releases testosterone in your body and also circulates blood in to your genital area.

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11. Sex is a great, all-natural cure for headaches.

12. Having sex at least three times a week can make you look 4-7 years younger.

13. Having sex also triggers creativity, according to some interesting studies. Have a presentation at work tomorrow? Maybe the answer lies in between the sheets!

14. If you’re sexually attracted to someone, it is much more difficult to lie to them.

15. A woman’s sexual drive reaches its peak just before her period.

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16. You only need all the sperm that could fit into an aspirin capsule to repopulate the earth.

17. Your inner nose swells while having sex.

18. On an average, you burn 100 calories in a single sex session.

19. At the time your orgasm, an average person’s heart beats at the rate of 140 beats per minute.

20. A sperm can travel up to 7 inches in an hour’s time.

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21. A man approximately ejaculates 17 litres of semen in his entire life that contains about half a trillion sperm.

22. About two tablespoons of blood is required to get a penis erect.

23. A woman’s clitoris contains over 8000 nerve fibres, almost the twice of that of a penis.

24. A woman can orgasm in about 4 minutes through masturbation but it will take her 10-20 minutes to orgasm during an intercourse.

25. Menstrual cramps can cause orgasms too.

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26. The only physiological response in a human body that cannot voluntarily stop once it has started apart from orgasms is a sneeze.

27. Women suffering from migraine have a higher sex drive.

28. Most women prefer a dark place over a well lit up place to have sex in.

29. The testes increase by 50 % in size when a man is aroused.

30. Men reach their sexual peak at 17 years of age.

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31. A teaspoonful of semen contains about 5 calories.

32. Chocolate contains phenylethylamine that gives you the same ecstatic feeling people feel when they’re sexually attracted to someone.

33. 60 % men get erect nipples when aroused.

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10 Things Every Man Wants in Bed


Rare is the man who demands acrobatic porno stunts and a closet filled with ball gags and leather whips. Sure, those men exist, and if that’s your cup of kink, go for it. But the truth is, most guys are a little more predictable in their bedroom proclivities. We just want a sex life that’s a little spicy, a little sweet, and still occasionally surprising. Easy enough, right? Sure it is! To make the bedroom a sexual sanctuary, here are the things dudes desire most.

1. To See You Take Initiative
We’re happy to make the first move, and if you don’t, we will. But it’s so much more rewarding when we know how eager you are. Because no matter how much you seem to enjoy the heat, if you never light the match, we have to wonder if you don’t secretly prefer the cold.

2. Sexy Lingerie
We know you mostly wear it to turn us on, and we really, really appreciate it—even if we seem to barely notice as we rip it off and toss it on the floor.

3. Foreplay
Don’t be fooled by guys you see in movies who are always horny and ready to screw like RIGHT NOW. Truth is, we love the slow build as much as we love the crescendo. And good sex provides both.

4. Spontaneity
It’s impossible for a couple not to fall into some kind of rut, even if it’s a shallow one. So don’t ever be afraid to change things up. Pre-work sex, sex without penetration, and sex on the living room coffee table all do the trick. Just be sure to wipe it down before you put the magazines back.

MORE: 11 Things That Make You Great in Bed

5. Dirty Talk
Or at the very least, some encouraging moans to let us know when we’re on the right track.

6. To Hear His Name
Nothing keeps us in the moment like the sound of our own name. Use that to your advantage.

7. Safety
Unless we’re in a long-term relationship, you’re taking the Pill, and we’ve both been tested for STDs, then condoms are still part of the equation. Odds are, we have one with us. But what if we run out? Or we forget it? If you can whip out a rubber like sexual Houdini, that’s hot. Even better is if you occasionally pull it out before we have a chance to. It shows us that you’re committed to our sex life, and that you’re willing to take joint responsibility for our safety.

MORE: 9 Signs He’s Only Interested in Sex

8. A Game-for-Anything Attitude
If we want to play out a fantasy or try a new position, we hope you’ll at least be open to trying. And we promise—we’ll do the same for you.

9. A Sense of Humor
When things go wrong, it can either be hilarious, or devastating. Our ability to laugh together makes the difference.

10. To Make You Orgasm
It’s not all about us, and we know it. So, please—tell us what you want. We aim to please.

MORE: 9 Things Men Think When They See You Naked

25 Craziest Sex Laws From Around The World You Won’t Believe Exist


Take a look at these 25 craziest, weirdest, and most bizarre sex laws from around the world that will make you go WTF!

1. A person cannot have more than two dildos in his/her house in Arizona.

2. Washington D.C. allows its people to have sex in only one position – missionary.

3. A man is not allowed to kiss his wife’s breasts in Florida.

4. In Alabama, incestuous marriages are legal.

5. In Michigan, couples cannot have sex in a vehicle, unless it is parked on a property owned by them.

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6. It is illegal to have sex with a porcupine in Florida.

7. A man cannot be sexually aroused in public, according to the bizarre sex laws in Indiana.

8. If you have a moustache, you cannot kiss a woman in public in Iowa.

9. It is illegal to kiss a sleeping woman in Colorado.

10. A man having sex with any woman who is not his wife is considered to be rape in Wisconsin.

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11. If you pat a woman’s posterior in Norfolk, Virginia, you can be jailed for 60 days.

12. Oral sex is considered to be illegal in Florida.

13. Alabama doesn’t allow its people to buy sex toys.

14. Utah allows having sex with animals but only if it is for money.

15. You cannot sleep naked with your partner in Minnesota.

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16. A law in Bakersfield, California states that one has to wear a condom while having sex with Satan.

17. In Oregon, cursing while having sex is a criminal offence.

18. You cannot have sex in a parked vehicle in London.

19. In China, women can only roam around naked in the bathroom, nowhere else.

20. You cannot get involved in any sexual activity if the lights of the room are on, in Romboch, Virginia.

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21. A man cannot have sexual intercourse with a live fish in Minnesota.

22. In Oblong, Illionis you cannot make love to your partner while fishing or hunting.

23. There is a weird law in Washington , according to which, you may never have sex with a virgin, even on your wedding night. How do people ever have sex there?

24. In Cali, Colombia, mothers have to literally watch their daughters lose their virginity.

25. Nepal and Bangladesh doesn’t allow movies that show simulated sex or pelvic areas of any of the actors.

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4 Things Women Want In Bed But Are Afraid To Ask


Fellas, it’s quite important that you communicate with your partner about what she wants or needs in the bedroom, because chances are, you don’t even have any clue. We hear you which is why we’re here to give a sneak-peak inside her brain. Yes, the cat is out of the bag, quite literally!

1) Aggressive and Rough Sex

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We are saying no-holds-barred, rough, occasional spanking, hair pulling and have-to-have-you-now-can’t-wait sex. Women are often apprehensive about asking for it because we all have been socially conditioned into believing that rough sex is degrading for women. We are not saying you to go home and smack your bitch up, but a little roughing in your bedroom can work wonders for your sex life.

2) An X-Rated Sex Life

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Most women want to be, for lack of a better word, a little slutty in the bedroom. She is tired of being that precious elegant lady who makes love all the time. All thanks to the popularity of fifty shades of grey and other erotic fictions, kinky is the new sexy. Their only fear is that if they behave in this manner, their men will think less of them. More importantly, they’ll begin treating them the same outside the bedroom.

3) A Dominant Man Who Loves Giving Her Oral

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You already know that plenty of women are keen on going down on their men, mostly because they are secretly hoping of reciprocation. They love a man who’s immensely confident of where and what he is doing. They love all the kinds of dominant behavior in the bedroom. Oh and noise too! They secretly want to hear you making pleasant noises.

4) Dirty Talk

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That’s right, they are not asking for a cuss or two but downright nasty talk. Most women need to be mentally stimulated as well, and dirty talk helps to activate the fantasy playing out in their minds.  Tame bedroom antics are a passé, be colorful in what you do and say to her while doing the deed. I’m sure we don’t have to tell you what to say without being censored, put your imagination to good use.

Having Sex When Kids Are Around


Very often, your sex life takes a backseat once you become a dad. Most of your time goes in changing nappies, singing lullabies to those cute little howling machines and cleaning up their mess. The whole day passes by in a jiffy and there is no time left for you to spend with your spouse. Even when you two retire to bed, all you do is talk about the chores scheduled for the next day.  Before you know it, you’ve forgotten what sex feels like. We totally understand your plight, which is why we always emphasise that you must never miss out on having sex. Physical intimacy is as important in a relationship as emotional attachment. Sex is the best thing ever and there is no reason it should stop. This is how you can revive your sex life even with kids around in the house.

When The Baby Is Sleeping Next To You

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Imagine this. Your baby is sleeping right next to her. You accidentally brush her thigh with your hand. Before you know it, your hand is sliding up to your hip. She is getting in the mood too. What is stopping you two then? Ah, the sleeping baby of course. We know how distressing it could be for a child to be exposed to parents having sex. But if the infant is younger than 6 months, then the above rule doesn’t really hold true. What you may do is keep a crib nearby, in case things heat up. If you don’t feel right about shifting the baby, may we remind you – you have the entire floor to yourself. It will not only let your baby enjoy sound sleep, but will also bring in some spontaneity and excitement!

When The Baby Is Wide Awake

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It’s good to spend time with your baby, but it is also totally alright to sneak out and have some time alone. You may feel the urge to have sex while your baby is playing in the same room. Study the baby’s temperament. If you think he is good to go for a while, quietly sneak out and hit the drawing room for a passionate quickie. A healthy sex life ensures high spirits during the day, which is highly essential when there is baby around in the house.

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Your baby went off to sleep a little early today. You still have one hour all to yourself. Just as you get under the sheets, your child knocks. He has probably just seen a nightmare and is terrified. Of course your first priority should be to make your child feel safe. Does that mean you skip it tonight? Not at all, given the fact that the last time you did it was a month ago. Once you’re sure the child is asleep, quietly peep out into some other room from where you can hear him, if the need be. Keep the lights low, close the door and have your clothes nearby. Go for it. It’s not as difficult as you think it is.

When You Fear Your Child Barging In

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You’ve spent the whole Sunday morning waiting for this one moment. The kids are busy watching their favourite cartoon on the television and the kitchen has finally given your wife some time out. You two get in the bedroom for some alone time. But what if your child barges in?  This is when you should introduce rules like ‘knock before you enter’. Whether or not you’re having sex, you kids must learn to respect your privacy. Having a child doesn’t mean you should compromise on it. Lock the door when necessary. You’re a good parent; it’s time to be a good lover.

When It Is Just Impossible To Have Some Time Alone

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One kid is still easy to handle. But as the second one arrives, there goes your sex life into the bin. You rarely go out on dates with your wife. Start it off with a romantic dinner at your favourite restaurant. Revive old memories. Give her a long, passionate kiss that takes her back to your dating days. It is alright to leave your kids home and go out with your wife to revive old memories. Hire a babysitter for the night. Book a room in a fancy hotel to quench your thirst for some passionate sex.

30 Facts About Orgasms You Need To Know


How well do you know your body? Here are 30 facts about orgasms we bet you never knew!

1. The word ‘orgasm’ has been derived from a Greek word orgasmos which actually means ‘to swell with moisture, be excited or eager’.

2. The use of condoms does not affect orgasm quality. There is equal probability of a woman orgasming with or without a condom.

3. The spark you feel up your spine while orgasming is because of a pair of pudendal nerves that connect the penis/clitoris to the brain.

4. A woman can orgasm by the stimulation of breasts and nipples alone. Yes, nipplegasms are for real!

5. Kegel exercises really increase the chances of an orgasm.

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6. The condition where a person cannot orgasm is called ‘anorgasmia’, literally meaning ‘lack of orgasm’.

7. Orgasm helps you burn only 2-3 calories, though foreplay and intercourse could help you burn upto 50!

8. The areas of the brain that register fear and danger are deactivated while climaxing.

9. An orgasm affects the same part of your brain as heroin does in a drug addict’s brain. Whoa, sex really is addictive!

10. Even though it is popular belief that orgasms stop after a certain age, people older than 90 have also been experienced orgasms according to some studies.

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11. It takes 2 to 10 minutes for an average man to orgasm.

12. It could take up to around 20 minutes of stimulation for a woman to orgasm.

13. But there are some women who can orgasm in under 30 seconds with self-stimulation.

14. Men can also have multiple orgasms and the proof lies in documents dating back to 2968 B.C.

15. Just thinking about orgasming can also result in an orgasm.

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16. Sex toys have been used since hundreds of years for sexual pleasures.

17. The same parts of brain are activated while orgasming as those activated when you feel pain. Hence, the weird sex face!

18. Orgasms can ease your pain for around 10 minutes.

19. It is not necessary for a man to be erect to ejaculate.

20. According to Egyptian texts and legends, this world came into being when their God Atum masturbated.

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21. Circumcision doesn’t reduce the chances of orgasm in a man.

22. But, a foreskin does help in increasing the duration of an orgasm.

23. Not just men, even women can orgasm in their sleep.

24. Although just a tiny percentage, women have been reported to have orgasmed while doing Yoga.

25. The farthest distance any man has ever ejaculated is about 8 feet.

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26. Most women are unable to orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone. They need oral sex or physical stimulation to get them going!

27. An average orgasm in both men and women lasts for about 17-20 seconds.

28. It is possible for a woman to orgasm during child birth.

29. The higher your stress level, lower are your chances to orgasm. So, relax!

30. Doggie-style is one of the best sex positions to ensure your woman’s orgasm.

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